But sorry to hear about your cat. I cry more over the loss of my cats than my relatives I'm ashamed to say
You too Ploppy. Did you get a new companion for your other little one yet?
Yes we got another kitty a few months after we lost Kyma. We called him Kori and he has just had his first birthday. Kali just about tolerates him
Isn't it terrible, I have only ever lost two grandparents, we weren't hugely close and yes when Kyma died it knocked me for six, the suddeness didn't help.
Thankyou all for your kind thoughts re. Bengy.
I do have two other cats at the moment , one I foster until she is ready for re-homing and another big chap with attitude called Sammy. I could write a book about his antics ! He is rescued from a horrible situation as have been all the others.
Sammy will never be re-homed so he is here to stay. With a few exceptions I take on older cats that are often overlooked so the death of one or the other is a fact of life.
Sammy is missing Bengy, wandering around the house and garden looking for him.
It does not make it any easier though. I grow to love them despite everything and miss them deeply when they die.
Bengy died as a 90% result of my neighbour's actions. I will never forgive him (neighbour) or his family as long as I live. They have never said sorry nor even acknowledged his demise.
It is a different kind of grief with dogs or cats or any pet for that matter. We are always left wondering if there was more we could have done.
But now to see to Sammy who is at the door howling (yowling ?) for attention.!
Thanks again all,
Heather.